Beyond Neutrality. On the Side of the Family.
By combining psychological "emotional mining" with the structural precision of a JD-trained strategist, I help you create agreements that define your future—not just end your past. Stop letting the conflict control the narrative; start leading the transition.
The Marriage Clarity Path
$1,050
This is a time-limited, four-session process designed to provide you and your partner with the strategic clarity needed to decide the future of your marriage. We focus on informed decision-making, not indefinite therapy.
The Focus: We focus on the current status of the relationship, the impact of parenting stress, and the specific steps required to either rebuild the marriage or proceed respectfully toward divorce.
The Outcome: A controlled, informed decision that honors both your partnership history and your children's long-term well-being.
The Process: Four sessions, that’s it
Shared Assessment 1: A two-hour joint session. We explore the history of your relationship, define what you have already tried, and articulate what a conflict-free future—together or apart—could look like for your family.
Individual Strategy Sessions: Two private one-hour sessions. You meet with me privately to share concerns and explore potential paths forward confidentially. This is dedicated time to align your personal needs with the family's best outcome.
Decision Mapping: A two-hour joint session. We meet jointly to mediate your final decision. The focus is on creating a clear, ethical, and shared plan for the immediate next chapter.
The Stability & Integrity Framework
$2,100
An Ethical Bridge to Your New Future
A structured, 3-stage process to stabilize the present without compromising the future.
The Purpose: The period between "deciding to separate" and "filing for divorce" is the highest-risk window for family conflict. Most parents are paralyzed by fear: If I move out, am I abandoning the home? If I agree to this schedule, am I setting a legal precedent?
The Stability & Integrity Framework is a non-legally binding "Ethical Bridge." It allows you to create a functional, two-household reality today while explicitly reserving your legal rights for tomorrow. We prioritize the Third Side—your children’s need for immediate calm—above the tactical maneuvers of litigation.
What this "Product" Delivers:
Omnipartial Information Gathering: I work with both of you to gather the "evidence" of your daily lives—schedules, expenses, and needs—to build a framework that feels fair to everyone.
The "No-Precedent" Firewall: We craft an agreement that is an ethical commitment only. This allows you to test-drive your separation with the safety net that these temporary arrangements cannot be used as "status quo" leverage in a future courtroom.
The Children’s Narrative: We draft a unified message and communication strategy so your children hear a story of stability, not a report on your conflict.
Financial & Housing Fluidity: A clear, immediate plan for essential expenses and living arrangements, ensuring no one feels like a "victim" or a "villain" during the transition.
Why the "Third Side" Matters Here:
Disempowered, victim parents raise disempowered, victim children. By creating this bridge, you reclaim your agency. You stop reacting to legal fears and start leading your family through the transition. You aren't "giving in"; you are building a foundation of integrity.
The Co-Parenting Security Blueprint
Precision Drafting for Long-Term Peace
$2,800
The Mission: Clarity is the Ultimate Protection
Most high-conflict cycles are fueled by ambiguity. When a parenting plan is vague, it becomes a weapon. My Security Blueprint is designed to eliminate the "gray areas" that create conflict. Drawing from my decade of experience in the Dependency Courts and Administrative Law, I facilitate the creation of a plan that is both human-centered and structurally sound.
Why this is the "Gold Standard" for Your Family:
Mining the Safety Data: We don't just pick dates on a calendar. We mine the emotional and practical data of your lives to identify where the "safety gaps" are. Whether dealing with addiction recovery, complex power dynamics, or simple communication breakdowns, we build in the specific safeguards your family needs.
Administrative Precision: With my JD background and years helping families in dependency court (where “courts take away your kids” - parent quote), I understand the "Edges of Enforceability." I ensure we don't waste time on "aspirational" language that a judge would throw out. We focus on concrete, actionable, and enforceable mandates that provide a stable foundation for the Third Side—your children.
The Omnipartial Advocate: I am 100% on the side of Parent A having what they need to succeed, and 100% on the side of Parent B. By helping you both "present your evidence" for your children's needs, we reach a consensus that honors the whole system.
The Co-Parenting Blueprint Deliverables:
The Conflict Audit: Individual sessions to identify the high-stakes "friction points" unique to your family.
Strategic Drafting Sessions: High-EQ mediation focused on schedule, holiday rotations, travel, and decision-making authority.
The Enforceability Review: A rigorous check to ensure every clause is written with the clarity required for court filing.
The Legacy Memorandum: A comprehensive MOU that acts as your family's new Constitution.
The Stakes: Disempowered, victim parents raise disempowered, victim children. This Blueprint is about reclaiming your agency by creating a plan so clear that conflict has nowhere to hide.
The Co-Parenting "Tune-Up" (Maintenance Session)
Fixed-Fee: $650 (90-Minute Intensive)
Refining the Framework for Growth.
Children don't stay the same, and your agreement shouldn't either. This session is a structured, high-EQ forum to negotiate specific adjustments—summer transitions, educational shifts, or extracurricular complexities. Leveraging my background in Administrative Law, I help you "gather the evidence" of your new family reality and formalize changes that remain enforceable and clear.
The Goal: To adapt the plan to the child’s current developmental stage while maintaining the parents' agency.
The Strategic Alignment Session (Individual Prep)
Fixed-Fee: $350 (Per Parent / 75 Minutes)
Mining the Information Before the Negotiation.
High-conflict dynamics often resurface when change is on the table. These individual sessions are where we do the "heavy lifting" of Omnipartiality. I work with you privately to:
Mine the Emotion: Extract the data hidden in your anxiety or frustration.
Strategic Preparation: Help you clarify your needs and practice communication skills that keep your children at the heart of the matter, not in the middle.
Balanced Integrity: To ensure the "Third Side" remains protected, if one parent engages in a Strategic Alignment Session, the other must also complete their own session before we meet jointly.